今天我blog的是 - 女人（女生）到底要的是什么
在还没有开始之前 我是希望你们可以花一点点的时间把这篇文字读完
看起来很长  其实还好  :) 
以下的文章是关于 Brad Pitt 讲关于自己的老婆 Angelina Jolie 



Brad Pitt About His Wife : 




"My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. 

She has lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. 

She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. 

Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. 

She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we’ll get divorced soon… 

But then I decided to act on it. After all I've got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the idol of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders. 

I began to pamper her with flowers, kisses and compliments. I surprised her and pleased her every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends. 

You won’t believe it, but she blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much. 

And then I realized one thing: The woman is the reflection of her man.


If you love her to the point of madness, she will become it. " - Brad Pitt, A Secret of Love



我简单的带过以上的故事  有一段时间他的老婆很不开心
脾气很不好  精神不好  样样事情都很不顺利
常常感觉很压力  
那个时候Brad Pitt以为自己会和老婆离婚

但是他想了想  他决定改变着一切  他决定对她的老婆好一点点
他开始很关心Angelina Jolie  有时会送花给她  送她小礼物
在晚上睡觉的时候  就抱着她睡觉  让她容易入睡

在朋友的面前 就多赞赞她  
跟朋友的话题都是关于自己的老婆
慢慢的Angelina Jolie在也没有像以前那样的
她开始活到开心  没有脾气暴躁了
也开始越来越爱Brad Pitt了

他们的感情越来越好
Brad Pitt也表示他从中学到了一样东西 

就是 : - 


The woman is the reflection of her man.

意思是说 你的女人就是你的镜子







他说的很对  其实女人要的真的很简单
真的  真的 很很很简单
常常你会发现你身边的朋友会说  他的女朋友和他分手了
男生爱面子  不会承认自己有错的
所以就会跟朋友说  那个女人的坏话
但是你有没有想过
为什么人家会离开你 

大多数离开的有原因是因为你没有关心到自己的女朋友
男生会觉得感情稳定了  所以就对女朋友慢慢开始冷淡
女生口中说不介意  但是还是很想自己的男朋友会主动关心自己

会主动SMS女朋友说自己在干嘛  或是问候一下女朋友

我常常发现有每个情侣  当他们开始交往了一段时间
往往都是女的主动找男朋友  关心男朋友

有时如果男生多点主动关心女生
女生就不会常常发脾气  或者脾气不好
女生会常常脾气不好或是胡闹
都是缺乏安全感  或是缺乏男朋友的关心 才会胡闹的

女生也喜欢吵吵闹闹 但是脾气真的很难控制
男生常常很好奇  为什么女生会那么小气

女生真的那么小气吗？
其实不是的 我们要的只是你的关心  你的爱护
每天简简单单问候的讯息就很够了
主动告诉自己的女朋友自己在干嘛  
其实女生这样就会很开心  
觉得有安全感了

就这么简单
多多关心自己的女朋友
让她开心  女朋友开心  就不会常常发脾气
她没有发脾气  你自己也开心一点 
不是吗？

就那么简单  就可以让双方开开心心的交往
为什么不做呢？

你可以为她做100% 
她可以为你做200% 

Brad Pitt的故事是最好的榜样


我没有说我以上所写的都一定对
但是也不一定没有道理


如果你觉得我说的没有道理
那你可以按你电脑右上的那个 X 关掉
退出我的部落格


最后  还有一首歌我推荐你们听的
就是

吳克羣《胡鬧》是描述为什么一个女生会胡闹




and ! 

吳克羣《因為妳是女人》



一定要听  是跟本话题有关的  :)